Tight bonds from the start, and instant clicking. A lot of laughter.
Alot of us were close because we were all from the same class, and went on many outings together. We were one of the few classes who were so closely together. And pretty smug about it.
Soon it was time for us to choose our own majors, and needless to say, all of us were seperated. Some went into advertising, graphic design, etc. A whole new year, new classmates.
Then each found their own group of friends. friends who shared the same love for multimedia, graphics, filming. The bridges built thinned so much that some are altogether burnt. I was generally quite upset, because we shared so much, and in a semester everything changed.
Up till now, I still keep in contact with 3 girls. And the funny thing is, it is enough for me.
Just feel that, as much as friends mean the world to me, and most of us, I realise that I don't need many to be happy. The bond is still there as it did at the start with these 3, but way stronger.
Trying to keep several friendships close can get really exhausting. It's great if the other party responds, but most of the time its only a one-sided thing in the long run. And you wonder what are you actually holding on for.
So this is a little quote - In life, as you grow, you discover which friends are worth keeping, and which to toss out the door.
I don't know. Has anything like that happened to you?